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How To Be Alone

This charming video pays tribute to the happy wholesomeness of being alone. Tanya Davis recites her poem about the ways of solitude, gently cataloging all the places where aloneness can bring freedom and healing. Whether at a lunch counter, park bench, mountain trail, or on the edge of a dance floor - all you have to do is love yourself enough, to love being alone.

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    Dan

    It makes me feel better knowing that I am not crazy for enjoying my solitude, even though my kids think I am nuts.

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    Susan

    Tanya Davis, what a gift you have given in such a gentle and beautiful way. I love it. It's going on my Facebook page. I hope lots of others read this and open to the wondrous possibilities that you have suggested. Thank you.

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    Chandeesh

    Sincerity of the protagonist, self-belief and shunning the streotyped lifestyle to claim personal space. Thou art born free Will the sprout of your wings and soar beyond the skies !

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    ken

    hi there, what i felt from the videos is this, it was a reminder of things we leave behind, don't think about, or we are just to isolated to remember, Isolation can really freeze people. After a 7 yr breakup, I have spent more time alone in the last 2 months, then in the last 7 yrs. It has been great and awful, yet here I am still here, willing, open for the proces and abound with new energy from your perspective, in the motivation in which wrote this song for u/with u. Since, I believe all creative preocesses come from without self and the self, in its ability to respond and create, thus creates this gift, then this gift moves through us and we are available or not, the one's(people), who really learn to be alone are more available to the creative process, we/they are cleaner slates to work with. We are plainly more open beacuase in our want or desire, to move through, being alone gives us this, a more open slate, less problems,less complications, less drama,less other people stuff, those who come through real isolation, know this. I really thought this is really good work, I think this girl has got it right. Just don't worry, go out and be amongst everyone else and u just might meet another u at there. Maybe not but at least u have a whole self to rely on, who can say that and then really represent that in their life's, offering this to the earth and humankind. peace, ken truly thank u

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    Charles

    From "alone" to seeing - a(l)l ONE. When in my head there are times i feel alone. When living from my heart i know we are ALL ONE. Thank you for reminding us of the importance of living in our hearts.

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    Laura

    I loved the thoughts expressed; it's okay to be alone. I had just seen a quote recently that goes perfectly with this that read; 'Transform the pain of loneliness into the joy of solitude.' Great job!

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    Gretchen

    i have been working on this journey of aloneness for many years. Now, at 58, coming from a highly dysfunctional family I started going places, like out in the woods for my sanctuary. Then I lost it. Why? I didn't truely love myself yet. Now, I do.

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    noel

    oh I let lonliness eat my lunch ... until I decided to embrace it. Being a widow rocks your world and makes you have to redefine your existance. This only embraced who I am and what I am doing!

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    Sue

    Love this! I am reminded of the gift of such simplicity~ my own company & the richness of such an experience. A deep bow to you.

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    Chie

    "being alone is not because dont have any friends or family, but once being alone in many ways was very peaceful...:)Thank you.

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    Shaw

    This is the most exact thing that I needed right now. You may have saved my life. Thank you.

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    Iana

    I am going to go and practice my neglected accordion, alone, and not worry about annoying anyone.

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    sethi

    Thank you . Being alone is being close to God . Beautiful .

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    john

    Tis very true, all that was said. There is something spiritual about aloness, peaceful, and and rewarding. Very well put. Excellent!

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    LM

    It just reminded me that alone is okay. Thank you.

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    joann

    Just beautiful! Thank you!

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    Sandra

    "There is heat in freezing...be a testament!" Tanya, really seemed this whole writing just flowed freely from the synthesis of your heart and mind, as if just said and complete with no editing! Excellent and so appreciated! Great collaboration too in music and film antimation, all!

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    April

    I was reminded of all of the gifts within the time that is your alone :) Thank you Tanya for sharing such a gentle and beautiful example.

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    Jeff

    That was very nice!

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    Paula

    How can we love and be with others if we cannot bear to be alone and love ourselves. This reminds me of Oriah Mountain Dreamer's poem, "The Invitation." She writes, "I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

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    Spencer

    Yeh, thanks Tanya, for putting into words what silence, stillness and solitude might want us to know about the wonders of just being...not accomplishing, achieving, or improving, just being. God's truest language is silence, and can best be heard when alone and still. Becoming aware of one's own presence is not different from the awareness of the One, since we are that. Your words and video have blessed those for whom this message is intended.

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    Noor a.f

    Being alone is what I chose because I got too many problems and going in very busy places will only jam my head. I like cool places like here such this time am making decisions that will lead me. when a small problem starts normally big problems follow. God just knows and he never address I just solved one and another one needs me to solve if I want peace. how can I then be in a noisy place? Thank you for the video and continue the good.

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    Henri Ferguson

    There are so many simple yet really profound truths spoken in this beautiful video. As a yoga teacher ny emphasis is on mindfulness which inevitably speaks to stillness and silence; learning how to be comfortably alone. Imagine being with a close friend or significant other and walking in the woods, riding in a car or just sitting in a room and all of sudden realizing that you have both been silent for the last 20 minutes, and that silence was as comfortable as wearing your favourite old sweater. The ability to experience that comfort in silence with another is the experience that we must have with ourselves to begin to access that "inner peace" we all talk about but for most of us have no idea what that actually means. Learn to be still.

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    Ari

    I love Tanya Davis. She is a beautiful artist with a great message. The video reminds me that there is peace in solitude, and a chance for my heart to be open and free with myself. There is something so sacred about solitude.

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    erin

    Alone is where it all begins...:)

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    Joyce

    This relevant video speaks to my heart and soul. When I was widowed in 1990 "alone" was not a good place to be. But since that time I have adjusted to my life changes. I eventually discoverd PEACE with just being by myself. I gained valuable insight that allowed me the freedom to create the life that I desired.

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    cei

    This video has helped me so much today,I'm rediscovering the joy of being alone and the possibilities it brings. Absolutely beautiful, thank you.

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    Cindi

    The simplicity of how to be alone and reminder that it is ok.

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    Christine

    Thanks for finding the words to describe why I like to be alone. So many people do not understand the thrill and the peace of it. Its not being introverted, quite the opposite. Only in the quiet of being alone can I see and hear all that is around me.

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    Michelle

    Heartfelt thanks Tanya for creating this loving, giving message. Your words, the gentle music and your thoughtful, uplifting video is a much needed gift to love and cherish who I am. Thank you...I needed that reminder!

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    Priscilla D'Gama

    prayer and music are the two greatest assets when alone . Thanks for sharing your thoughts

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    Denise Best

    That's lovely Tanya thanks for sharing, sometimes we all need ME time x

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    Alone somewhere

    I like to be friend ..... more than ..... have friends ..... Alone is OK. ^^

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    HKS

    I don't avoid solitude, I seek it out... so I deeply appreciate this primer for those who fear it. Thank you for the beautiful thoughts and imagery Tanya!

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    Gretchen

    be brave! believe in yourself! DO IT!

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    Thelma

    This poem is lovely. I love my alone time but also love being around others. I find I need my alone time so I can refresh and re-energise to cope with the busyness of being with others.

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    Mayangel

    If you are happy with yourself, can keep the mind quiet without any mental chatter, no attachment to people, pets, places, things, positions, titles, money and fruits of your abour, and can "just be" moment to moment, there is no better way than being alone and enjoying the solitude, a deep experience of all goodness and treasures within you, the virtues and qualities of your soul wanting to express themselves in their own time.

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    Marty

    In the end we are all alone someone once said. And why not before the end as many of us find ourselves. Tanya's video is perfect for anyone trying to get to that place. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. It was just beautifully done.

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    Susan

    Reminded that it's ok for my kids to leave home and maybe have to be alone sometimes, like me.

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    Melissa

    I LOVE my alone time.....I relax, enjoy the peace and calm....and think! Wonderful time of day!

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    juli

    I feel wonderful when I am mindful that I am my own best friend.

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    muzammil

    i love you

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    Snowbird

    Beautiful video indeed. It is ok to be alone. Thank you to all.

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    srinivasan.rk

    No ultimate or everlasting good is obtained by just remaining alone. What is important is the MIND being silent. If the mind which is very difficult to be controlled is wandering hither and thither then no matter whether you are with your friends, family members or alone it hardly matters. What is important is the mind not functioning at all. No thought should be allowed to escape from the mind. It should be kept still. Then true bliss wells up. To sum up PEACE us our real nature. All we need do is "KEEP QUIET". That is keep the mind quiet.

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    Aile

    Thank you.I love when people speak my heart...and way of life.

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    Sharon

    A thoughtfully produced video indeed! Charming in its content, it provides me lovely reminders of what I cherish about being alone. I am alone now, not by choice, but due to illness that confines me to my home and I continue to explore ways in which to find acceptance and peace with my new reality. Thank you for your good work, lovely words.

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    Gordon

    very nicely done .. thank you

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    Holly Jensen

    This is just beautiful!! Thank you for sharing this.

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    Anna

    Thank you for this message. A good reminder to us all. :)

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    Mary Bell

    Thank you for the delight you placed in my mind when I listened and watched your video. Beautiful, Fabulous, Spiritual, Talented, Loving, Thanks for sharing your creativity

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    Juliann

    Wow, that beautiful on so many levels! I love Tanya's melodic voice, as well as the words the music.and visuals! Perfect timing too, during the season of hustle and bustle! Thanks for sharing!

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    MIchelle

    I love your work!!! Alone is fabulous!

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    me dana

    well said ~ i connect with your thoughts in this, similiar synapse's on these

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    Tracey

    Beautiful words, feelings and sentiments. Resonates with much of my life so far. I've been called a loner, a recluse and strange because I'd rather hang out with a tree or a rock. And yes, I too love the smell of books. Blessings to you Tanya.

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    S. Jennifer Gray Charnoe

    The music was a little louder than the words, so I didn't quite catch all the words, but I really appreciated the poem, the music, Tanya's style, the message, the whole presentation. Thank you!

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    bhushan

    so creative and authentic! keep up your art :)

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    Quincy

    ive recently started an alone mission too called Quincy Being Still. for years i thought i had to be entertained or to entertain anytime i was not booked on the calendar. but now i purposefully stare off at the ceiling, peoples faces, the wallpaper, the sky and i enjoy the fact that i am alone and doing nothing but breathing in the air...its so peaceful.

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    Garima

    hi Tanya, I very much appreciate your video....from last two months I am all alone sitting at home and ur video got posted in my mailbox through karmaTube. It just made me feel so connected. so beautiful and sentimental. It talked about what i am currently going through.... thanks a ton Tanya..... Your video shows what a beautiful mind you have. best wishes Garima

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    pat allen

    beautiful video, much needed sentiment. Thank you

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    angela

    Thanks for sharing such a true and spiritual story. Alone is okay.

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  • Sit for an hour in silence and notice the difference between impulses and insights. 

  • Read Henry David Thoreau's "Walden"; considered a personal declaration of independence, a voyage of spiritual discovery, and a manual for self-reliance!

  • Take yourself for a new adventure this week - a walk in the park, a meal at a restaurant - anything as long as you go solo! How do you interact with the world when you are by yourself versus when you are with others? 

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