Who is "the other?" A person from a group we negatively stereotype or whose points of view frustrate us. For more than 30 years, Elizabeth Lesser has studied and worked in the field of healing—healing oneself and healing society, which is one and the same. "Negative otherizing" can easily lead to violent extremism which is why she is urging us to do the work of Nelson Mandela and Mother Teresa, and other mystic warriors now. The task may seem daunting but the initiative starts by us taking 'the other' to lunch.